I have had the most amazing day today and I'll carry it with me for ever and ever. We had Frida from Rwanda visiting us, she shared her miraculous story of her escape from death during the genocide in 1994. She also spoke to us about forgiveness and how she'd been freed by forgiving the people who killed her family and left her presumed dead. I mentioned Frida previously on here when her husband was visiting us sometime last year and I longed to meet her, but didn't ever think I would. You know that feeling you get when someone inspires you and you would love to meet them in person, well I had that when I listened to Steve (her husband) talking about her. I couldn't believe it when Col (our pastor) said she was going to be coming to our church sometime this year.
This morning I was humbled by her courage, touched by her sincerity and so full of happiness from the infectious joy that she spread through the whole room. I cried the whole way through the first part of her story this morning, but tonight, yes, I was still moved beyond belief that a human being should have had to endure such horror, but I was also fired up with enthusiasm. Frida will probably never know the extent to which she has made a difference to me, I'll hold her in my heart for ever and I thank God for sending her to our church. Frida has written a book about her story, if you have a few bob spare go buy it and help her to continue to make a difference.
We had no choice in our child’s death but we do have a choice in how we respond. How we react long-term is a memorial to our child. Will people remember our son or daughter for who they were or that their parents ‘never got over it
We need never forget our sons and daughters. We will feel their loss painfully at different times throughout our lives, but we can learn to value what we have now and gain from our pain
I'm a mum to two lads, Mike who's 29 and Chris who would have been 25 in October 2007. My hubby is John who's lovely. Sadly we had to say goodbye to Chris in May 2007 due to complications after a double lung transplant. This blog is somewhere for me to get things out of my head and into words. It's also a place for me to share my journey as a Christian.